Comments on: Naughty Nurse http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/ ill. humored. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 01:08:06 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: DUNCAN CROSS » Blog Archive » Capable and revised http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/comment-page-1/#comment-163 DUNCAN CROSS » Blog Archive » Capable and revised Fri, 14 Nov 2008 14:57:01 +0000 http://duncancross.net/?p=318#comment-163 [...] is a revision of an earlier post, because some people get too hung up on sex (ewww,) to appreciate the main idea. The original post is still valid, but this should help clarify the [...] [...] is a revision of an earlier post, because some people get too hung up on sex (ewww,) to appreciate the main idea. The original post is still valid, but this should help clarify the [...]

]]> By: dx http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/comment-page-1/#comment-149 dx Thu, 13 Nov 2008 16:23:28 +0000 http://duncancross.net/?p=318#comment-149 @Rock - I don't think you should do anything that makes you uncomfortable - I probably wouldn't be comfortable with another person in the room, either. Otherwise, I hope this is something you're able to talk to your nurse(s) about, and I hope they're compassionate enough to see past their own discomfort to your entirely legitimate, very real needs. Still, I'm not arguing that you should do it over your nurse's objections - that's something you have to decide for yourself. @Rock – I don’t think you should do anything that makes you uncomfortable – I probably wouldn’t be comfortable with another person in the room, either. Otherwise, I hope this is something you’re able to talk to your nurse(s) about, and I hope they’re compassionate enough to see past their own discomfort to your entirely legitimate, very real needs. Still, I’m not arguing that you should do it over your nurse’s objections – that’s something you have to decide for yourself.

]]> By: Rock Meet Hard Place http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/comment-page-1/#comment-148 Rock Meet Hard Place Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:42:01 +0000 http://duncancross.net/?p=318#comment-148 I have brain cancer and have been in the hospital for several months now. The second I am transferred to a hospital near my fiance you can bet if I am capable I will be all over her. But for me I have SOME standards I suppose. I would NEVER do it in a room with a roommate or if my nurse deemed me unstable enough to do so. Or if it made the nurse uncomfortable I suppose though sex makes most people uncomfortable. I like the thirty minutes of alone time and possibly a locked door. The hospital I am at now does have one though again I suppose the nurse has easy access to a key to said locked door. Definitely a catch 22 but if I have to live the rest of my life in this place that is something I would like to share with my fiance. Mind you I am 22 and have as I said been at this for several unsuccessful months. I will probably live the rest of my life out in this place and I understand it is a very different situation than being in and out of the hospital but I get your point too nurse K. My nurses have saved my life more than once and are my lifeline to my doctor and I would not want them feeling uncomfortable coming in to check on me. And from the sounds of it you are just like the hard ass gentle souls that has saved my life before. But I also understand the want for sex. But does want outweigh need for a nurse? Not for me sorry my friend. I understand your position but another day with my girl is worth more than a few minutes of pleasure. I have brain cancer and have been in the hospital for several months now. The second I am transferred to a hospital near my fiance you can bet if I am capable I will be all over her. But for me I have SOME standards I suppose. I would NEVER do it in a room with a roommate or if my nurse deemed me unstable enough to do so. Or if it made the nurse uncomfortable I suppose though sex makes most people uncomfortable. I like the thirty minutes of alone time and possibly a locked door. The hospital I am at now does have one though again I suppose the nurse has easy access to a key to said locked door. Definitely a catch 22 but if I have to live the rest of my life in this place that is something I would like to share with my fiance. Mind you I am 22 and have as I said been at this for several unsuccessful months. I will probably live the rest of my life out in this place and I understand it is a very different situation than being in and out of the hospital but I get your point too nurse K. My nurses have saved my life more than once and are my lifeline to my doctor and I would not want them feeling uncomfortable coming in to check on me. And from the sounds of it you are just like the hard ass gentle souls that has saved my life before.
But I also understand the want for sex. But does want outweigh need for a nurse? Not for me sorry my friend. I understand your position but another day with my girl is worth more than a few minutes of pleasure.

]]> By: dx http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/comment-page-1/#comment-136 dx Wed, 12 Nov 2008 16:57:04 +0000 http://duncancross.net/?p=318#comment-136 @purple - I can understand your discomfort, which is why I think it's better to talk to your nurse and doctor and ask for privacy, rather than just hoping you don't get caught. In the original post, I did try to point to steps that took into consideration other parties' concerns. I don't actually think most people will be comfortable having sex with someone else in the room, whether or not that person is asleep. @purple – I can understand your discomfort, which is why I think it’s better to talk to your nurse and doctor and ask for privacy, rather than just hoping you don’t get caught. In the original post, I did try to point to steps that took into consideration other parties’ concerns. I don’t actually think most people will be comfortable having sex with someone else in the room, whether or not that person is asleep.

]]> By: purple http://duncancross.net/2008/11/naughty-nurses/comment-page-1/#comment-134 purple Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:37:39 +0000 http://duncancross.net/?p=318#comment-134 As a health care provider, it is uncomfortable to see people having sex in the hospital, mostly because its very hard to maintain privacy. At the same time, I completely see your point. Most of the negative staff reactions that I've seen are based upon the particular situation ( chronically ill patient who spends a lot of time in the hospital wanting some time alone with his wife versus a substance abuser/sociopath trying to seduce a younger mentally retarded patient in our unit-both true situations). As a health care provider, it is uncomfortable to see people having sex in the hospital, mostly because its very hard to maintain privacy. At the same time, I completely see your point.

Most of the negative staff reactions that I’ve seen are based upon the particular situation ( chronically ill patient who spends a lot of time in the hospital wanting some time alone with his wife versus a substance abuser/sociopath trying to seduce a younger mentally retarded patient in our unit-both true situations).

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